Expressing your needs and request during conflict
Master the art of clearly communicating what you truly need during challenging conversations without triggering defensiveness.
Conflict often escalates because we struggle to articulate our authentic needs in ways others can hear. Instead, we resort to criticism, blame, or silence—approaches that leave our core needs unmet and relationships strained. Based on the principles of Nonviolent Communication (NVC), this transformative workout teaches you a structured, four-step approach to express what matters most, even in heated moments. Christine will provide a framework that helps you identify what you really need that you haven't dared to say—and how to communicate it effectively.
What You'll Experience:
Through guided reflection and writing exercises, you'll:
Identify patterns in how you currently express (or don't express) your needs
Craft messages that communicate clearly without blame or criticism
Practice distinguishing between observations and evaluations
Learn the comprehensive vocabulary of feelings and needs
Develop skill in making clear, specific requests
Experience the power of reading your authentic requests aloud
Workshop Details:
Equipment needed: A pen and notebook
Level of mental challenge: Medium
Mode of learning: Reflective
Level of vulnerability: 2 out of 5 (comfortable for most participants)